


Dani's sense of otherness in her family begins to make sense to her and she realizes that there had always been secrets in their family unit. She reviews her childhood, researches the history of donor insemination during the time of her conception, and consults with friends, family members, and spiritual leaders about what this means for herself and her family. Since her discovery, Dani is consumed with wanting to know whether or not one or both of her parents knew the truth of her conception. Dani learns about her genetic and medical history but is keen to meet Ben, just once, though he is primarily concerned with his privacy and the privacy of his family and initially declines to meet her. Dani reaches out to Ben Walden and they begin a tentative correspondence.

Having been raised as an Orthodox Jew, and having fielded comments all her life about how she does not "look Jewish," Dani's sense of inheritance and understanding of the culture and traditions from which she comes is also thrown into question. Her sense of self and identity is upended as she questions who she is and how she fits into her family. With both her parents dead, Dani has to navigate this revelation mostly on her own. Ben Walden, a retired surgeon and expert on medical ethics, as the sperm donor who would become, unknown to both of them, her biological father. Conceived through artificial insemination, Dani identifies Dr. By piecing together the results of her test with seemingly innocuous comments her mother had previously made about her conception, and combining that information with online research, Dani is quickly able to find the man she believes to be her biological father. Amazon Kindle E-book Edition.ĭani Shapiro is shocked to learn, after taking an at-home DNA test, that her father, Paul Shapiro, was not her biological parent. Inheritance: A Memoir of Genealogy, Paternity, and Love. The following version of the book was used to create this study guide: Shapiro, Dani.
